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Taking Women’s Businesses to the Next Level

May 25, 2010

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I read a terrific Wall Street Journal article last week (by Sharon G. Hadary), called Why Are Women-Owned Companies Smaller Than Men-Owned Companies?”.   I recommend it as a “must read” for all of us!

It’s fascinating to me that even though statistics show that women can own and run businesses with million and multi-million dollar annual revenues, the average revenues of majority women-owned businesses are still smaller than (only 27 % of!) the average revenues of majority men-owned businesses. 

Why is that??  

According to this article, part of the answer has to do with “women’s own self-limiting views” and the other part is “the stereotypes, perceptions and expectations of business and government leaders.”  

 This article does a great job of describing ways to strengthen our internal and external perceptions and beliefs, many of which apply directly to the Big Fish concepts we learn about and practice daily.    For example,

- “Change the Mind-Set”:  We need to ‘think big’ (BIG, BOLD ACTIONS and GOALS) from the very beginning.  Even if we don’t plan to grow a multi-million dollar business, we need to plan for growth, learn more about business finance, and start believing that we will get business capital if we ask for it.

- “Women Learn From Women”: This is not about male-bashing or right or wrong ways of leading.  Women simply lead in different ways than men do, so women need other women to relate to.  We need to support each other in growing our strengths and finding new ways of doing business that feel more natural to us.  Natural = Best Self = Highly Effective!

- “Start with the Goals”:  Hadary says, Research shows that the only statistically significant  predictor of business growth is not the industry, size of business or length of time in business. It is the entrepreneur’s goal for growth.”  We must set our goals and we must set them for SUCCESS.  The higher our goals, the higher our beliefs, and the higher our successes.  (See other blog posts about goals).

 I would also add a couple key points from my experience:

- It’s Our Choice:   One of the response comments to this article pointed out that not all women entrepreneurs want a multi-million dollar business … that some women specifically choose NOT to grow their business beyond a certain point in order to avoid the potential stressors and demands of a “big” business.   There is no right or wrong size for a woman’s business – the important thing is that we intentionally choose the size of our business and set our goals based on that choice.   When we are “at choice,” we are creating our lives, leaving no room for self-limiting beliefs.

- Publicize Our Success:  If we are to change stereotypes about the capabilities of women leaders, we must share our success stories.  We must celebrate our successes publicly, using a variety of avenues to showcase our successes.   Tell the media about your achievements, join organizations that provide networks to give you additional visibility, and always be aware of ways you can market yourself and your successes.   It’s up to us to change the stereotypes one success story at a time.

I’ll leave you with a quote from the article, something for you to print and post as a reminder to take it to the next level:

 “We have to show women how to embrace change; to be trend-setters rather than simply react; to innovate beyond expectations; to develop global integration; and to practice social responsibility.  We need to help them identify ways to make their enterprises scalable and to build teams of talented people for where the enterprise should be in five years, not just today.”  - Sharon Hadary

See you at the next level!

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Support Works! Julia Rhodes of KleenSlate Concepts

May 18, 2010

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“At the end on the day, it’s about the relationships.”
- Julia Rhodes, owner of KleenSlate Concepts

In last week’s blog post, I talked about the global similarities of successful business women, and one of those is a strong support system. 

I got an exciting email a couple weeks ago from a wonderful Big Fish, Julia Rhodes, owner of KleenSlate Concepts.  She was celebrating the news that she had been selected as the Central California 2010 Small Business Person of the Year!  (Click here to see the full Press Release on Julia’s blog).

Julia founded KleenSlate Concepts in 2001 without even having a product — just with the idea for a product to solve the common problem of “the missing white board eraser” (click here to read more about that). 

Yet now, less than 8 years later, KleenSlate Concepts is a highly successful international product development company!

What was it that made Julia’s company so successful?

In her announcement email, she says that her success is in no small part due to the support that I have received from all of you.”   So I asked her to share more about that for this blog post.  

Julia explained that:

 “Having a support team is essential!  As I built my business,  so I built my relationships.

From day one I sought out women role models- in both business and  inventing.  It was the women that opened the doors and helped make things happen.

Anne-Marie Richards and Shari Francis from Office Depot  walked me through the intricacies of doing business with corporate America and mass market distribution. What I learned from them I have been able to use in all my business dealings. 

Diane McClelland from WBENC affiliate Astra  made sure I received the help I needed when seeking certification and encouraged me to sit on boards and  give back to other women in business.

Lorin Beller Blake, founder of  Big Fish Nation, reached out and encouraged me to dream big, create a vision and them take bold actions in my life! 

Now I show up, participate and give back- since that is what I learned along the way. I take my female role models with me wherever I go and lend a hand when I can. 

At the end on the day, it’s about the relationships.”

Whether our business is Dry-Erase Paddles or financial consulting or something completely different, the importance of relationships is exactly the same. 

Every business owner needs a strong support system, and we can all learn from Julia’s example of building a business through building relationships!

Thank you, Julia! 

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Click here to see the full Press Release on Julia’s blog

Click here for KleenSlate Concepts website

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Are You Holding Up Your Half of the Sky?

May 11, 2010

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In last week’s blog post I shared my experience of what turned out to be quite a hot :) topic — walking on fire.

It was a daunting task, one that I really did not want to do, yet I realized there was a learning opportunity there and decided the learning would be worth walking thru my fear and over the coals. Long story short, (see full story here: “Fire Walk Anyone?”), I DID IT!!!

Yet even as challenging (and important!) as that fire walk was for me, I keep thinking about how it pales in comparison to the experiences many women in third-world countries face in order to start and run their own businesses.

I recently read (and highly recommend) an incredible book called “Half the Sky”, by husband and wife Pulitzer-prize-winning authors Nicholas D. Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn.

The book includes case study stories of women who have been victims of ongoing sex crimes, poverty, male-dominated oppression, etc.

For many of these women, just getting through each day was a “fire walk” of physical and mental torture, and I can’t even imagine how they found their strength and courage each day.

The really amazing thing is the women who not only survived, but flourished by starting their own small businesses and gaining respect and even financial freedom.

These women are important examples for all of us women business owners!

As Big Fish, we know the importance of BOLD ACTIONS – those actions requiring extra courage to move our lives and our businesses forward.

So think about the level of BOLD actions these women are taking as they go against cultural norms to create their new lives and businesses! Think of the impact if we all take our own BOLD ACTIONS to the next level!

Bold actions are not the only factor connecting women entrepreneurs across the globe. As Half the Sky shows, even though women entrepreneurs around the world have very different kinds of businesses, there are many similarities in what it takes to be successful:

1. We all have a vision and put our energy toward making that vision a reality.
2. We all set goals and keep our tasks and energy focused on them.
3. We all have courage, determination and persistence.
4. We all have a support system.

It’s important to realize these similarities so we can be open to supporting women entrepreneurs not just in our own countries, but in other countries. Together we can have global impact!

One great resource for practical ways to support women across the globe is the Half the Sky book and the accompanying website at http://www.halftheskymovement.org/get-involved.

Big Fish Nation also offers a full-year program called the Starfish Program – a program in which each Starfish is “partnering” with another women business owner in a developing country, directly giving and receiving time, energy and expertise to and from other women entrepreneurs who are hoping to have their chance to also change their world.

As women, we need to realize our unique skills and contributions to our world. After all, “Women hold up half the sky” – Chinese proverb (attributed to Mao Tse Tung 1893 – 1976).

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Fire Walk anyone?

May 5, 2010

Filed under: #BigFishIntention, Adventure, Thought Leader — Tags: , , , , — Lorin Beller Blake @ 12:46 pm

FireWalk Any One?

Every now and then I sign up for something to rejuvenate me…. This time I signed up for a 2.5 day women business owners retreat with Tory Johnson’s Spark & Hustle program www.womenforhire.com . I knew very little about the people putting it on and the event itself. I just followed my intuition and signed up.

Upon arriving, I learned the first morning that that first night, we’d be doing a ‘fire walk’. At first, I was annoyed! I did not sign up for this! I never had ‘walking on fire’ on my bucket list! The truth, I did not want to do it, I was scared to put my tender, feeling feet into hot coals, it simply sounded stupid!

I remembered 7 or so years ago when I wanted to strap a hang-glider to my back and jump off a cliff in California. Stupid? Maybe, but I wanted to do it! I wanted to feel what it felt like to be a bird in the silent air 100’s of feet above the noise on the ground.

As I reflected on that experience, at the retreat, I was trying to find parallels… what intrigued me was the difference between doing something I wanted to do and something I did not want to do. I began to see how I felt about doing things I want to do and did not want to do…. And realized there is going to be a big opportunity for learning here should I choose to take it on. I was not yet convinced I would.

So at the end of the day, as the sun was going down, 22 of us gathered in 3 small busses and headed north to www.firewalking.com where a man named Charles Horton greeted us, he was our fearless leader. His story was so motivating and moving in and of itself.

He said a few very wise and simple things:

1. In order to do this fire walk, we must get ‘in state’ and realized what he was referring to was to get in ‘best self’ state like we talk about in the www.bigfishnation.com. He went on to say that his goal is to stay in this positive state for 95 percent of each day. I realized that he just raised my bar. Could I be in best self 95% of each day? Could you?

2. He went on to say that we had choice if we wanted to walk. We were not to pressure each other or encourage. Just focus on ourselves and allow each person to make their own choice. And accept what each person’s choice was. Again, a great point, I had to ask myself how often I judge those closest to me for their choices.

3. He continued, no matter our decision don’t make it easy, rather ‘Let it be Easy’ — ah this bit of advice I heard loudly. And I realized what a huge difference it was to make it easy rather than let it be easy. Allow. Allow. Allowing is so much easier than making! AH, it was starting to sound doable…. Walking on fire.

4. Another thing he said: put your attention on something OTHER than your feet and fire! ‘Energy flows where attention goes.’ I said to myself, this is the first principle in the book I wrote!? I have to walk my talk and do it… and I have to admit that I felt this was the ultimate test of me really being able to do so!

5. There was another sign in his ‘space’ that said: ‘Highly successful people routinely step out of their comfort zone to accomplish what they want.’ The truth, I had to admit that I had not been out of my comfort zone in while. And as time went on, I was realizing I was about to. UGH!

So it was time to start the process. He first had us break boards! Yes, break boards. At first I was thinking, ‘this is stupid!’ First of all, I use my hands a lot, I do not want to hurt them! So, 23 women started breaking boards. Everyone broke their board, but me! My board DID NOT BREAK! Or shall I say, I DID NOT BREAK MY BOARD THE FIRST TIME! Charles being the kind man that he is, allowed me to try a second time (after announcing that this is a onetime deal)… I barely broke the board, but I did. There were still wood fibers attaching the two sides… oh no, I started to have doubts about the fire thing. I remember saying to myself, ‘If I cannot break the board easily, how can I walk on fire?!?!’ I could have started freaking out. But I did a few deep breaths and did not put my energy there… I looked forward. Put my energy on the next thing. We threw our boards with our limiting beliefs written on them in fire, burned those shallow, disempowering thoughts in the fire.

It was time… the coals were hot. I could feel the heat from the fire. I really could easily have gone down the ‘You’ve got to be freakin’ kidding me…. ‘ path. But I didn’t. I stayed with the notion of ‘I feel great today. I feel terrific. I feel healthy. I feel happy. I am powerful. YES! YES! YES!’ I put my attention on the moment not the coals or heat.

The first woman walked! She did it. The second woman walked. She did it! In that moment, I knew that if I thought at all about what I was about to do, I would not do it. I was the 3rd woman to walk. The first step was warm. The second like warm rocks that sun was beating on. I did not feel the other steps and before I knew it, I was back on cool, moist grass. No pain. Nothing! Just pure elation! I DID IT! I REALLY JUST WALKED ON HOT COALS!

So the bottom-line, when we decide that we are going to do something we do not want to do (sales, speaking, a conversation, walking on fire) there are some basics:
1. Know what you have to do and DO IT! Don’t think too much about it.
2. As successful people, we should be doing this consistently!
3. When doing such things, remember where your energy is, it matters!
4. Let it be easy… .allow it to be easy.
5. Remember you always have choice! Even if we do not want to do it… and know we need to do it to go to the next level… Choice is powerful.
6. Get ‘in state’ and stay ‘in stay in state’… and simply this is Best Self in the big fish program.

I have written in this blog about this experience and the truth is, it is just the beginning of the learning from this experience and should you want the full ‘story’ about my fire walk journey email me: lorin@bigfishnation.com and I’ll share my full story with you.

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The Power of Retreat

May 4, 2010

[text and photos by Starla J. King, Big Fish 2009-10]

There’s a workworkworkwork vortex of owning a business.

Detail work
 Visionary work
  Networking work
   Planning work
    Lessons Learned work
     Prioritization work
      Re-prioritization work
       Resourcing, accounting, marketing, selling, servicing, creating, giving, doing, learning, expanding…

STOP!

       Retreat…step back
      Breathe
     Focus
    Let go
   Allow
  Laugh
 Connect
BE.

You see, when you’re too busy to take a break, that’s the time to do it. 

Somehow we get drawn into this notion that the only path to success is overwork.  If we’re maxed out on work hours and have exhausted our energy, then we know we’re doing enough… because it’s all we CAN do…so it HAS to be enough. 

It takes courage to stop working before you’re tapped out, and to take a retreat in the middle of your “busy season.”  But that’s what keeps your business alive, fuels your vision, hands you the unexpected insights, AHA’s and breakthroughs… the “taking care of business” (see last week’s blog).

Case in point:  Lorin Beller Blake of Big Fish Nation:  Successful business owner, wife, mother, athlete, etc. etc.  Undoubtedly busy and in demand, and probably a To Do list long enough to make me cry. 

Yet she took a retreat this weekend.

And she walked on fire.

I think perhaps we can manage our own “retreat” don’t you?  Today it might be 10 minutes.  Or this weekend ½ hour.  Then maybe next month an entire day.  

On our To Do lists, let’s put  “Retreat and so there is no question about priority, add “NON-NEGOTIABLE”  … then tell us about it here.  Are you in??

(tune in next week for Lorin’s blog about her fire walk!)

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